been in talks with hetzner after ram upgrade corrupted all the node, db data.
located the issue myself, asked for ram replacement.
it was still broken lol.

was offered 5h investigation, they come up with this.
it works though!

core memory saved: check the hardware before running the software.

looking for a grain of truth in this delusional space

btw they did a great job with response times, but tbh not with the response quality.
data is fucked up and it costs time to restore it.
no discounts/reimbursements were offered (probably safeguarded by TOS cuz who tf actually reads it).