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i have been bodyshamed all my life. growing up, i was a skinny girl. i got so many insults from people who think they're better than i am. i got called all series of degrading names.. "mopping stick, broom, HIV patient..." amongst others. it never made me feel good, and i couldn't stand up for myself, i was just a girl. 

fast forward to a few years later, i added flesh and looked better, and people are still in my throat.. bullying me and bodyshaming me. i don't go a day without strangers and even a known person talking about my body and how much I've added, calling me fat and all sort. 
if i eat, they tell me the reason I'm fat is cos i eat too much (mind you, this person doesn't even know me). 

as a human being, how does it feel to hurt people? how does it feel to insult a body you can not make? i know people will always talk, but i don't recommend. 

it pays to mind one's business. if you're one of the people that bodyshames others, kindly stop and   quit hurting people!

This reminds me of myself, though I was a thicker girl, struggle growing up cos of the body God decided to give me, I can't even begin to say what I went through, which name them no call me na, fast-forward to 2022 went through an intense depression, dropped weight for 95kg to 53kg in span of a month, now as a 5ft7 girl you should imagine how skinny I was looking, then people started saying everything that comes to their mind....omo it's a never ending exhausting cycle, if you are in this position just know you are perfect the way you are,  and always remember to love yourself because no one can love you better than you.♥️♥️♥️♥️

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many of us have gone through a lot in the hands of people. people can not create anything but can destroy feelings. i can understand 100% how you felt. humans are mean