just found out those viral 2022 "are we dating the same guy?" Facebook groups evolved into an app printing $200k/month with ~1M users (no VC $$)

must verify as a woman before you join, all posts anonymous, men searchable by name, can pay for info services like background checks, reverse image search, etc

building farcaster | surfing @ venice, ca | eating @ gjusta / gjelina | “lucky me, lucky mud” 🤠

I have always found it sad a group of society somehow accepted this as a norm. It is dark energy, morally suspect, questionably legal. 

not to mention lashon hara or evil speech — which on an energetic level reaps significant negative consequences in terms of your life trajectory.

if you’re called to use or contribute to this, I would examine how that victimhood serves you and if you are prepared to reap the consequences — not* of doing it but of being the kind of person who does that. 

tldr be quiet and up level girl, that’s how you win.