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Excellent essay by Noah Hawley, one of my favorite storytellers, sharing what he learned about billionaires at a private retreat Jeff Bezos hosted in 2018 in Santa Barbara, Calif.
Hawley (creator of "Legion," "Fargo," and "Alien: Earth") attended the family-friendly event — dubbed Campfire — with his wife and their two children.
Hawley's wife fractured her wrist the morning of the retreat's last day, when she slipped on wet grass while kicking a ball with their 6-year-old son. At lunch, after she was treated at a local hospital emergency department, Hawley finally met Bezos, who asked him how his Campfire experience was.
❝And because I am an honest person, and because I have been a host myself, I decided he would want to know that there had been a problem, but that his team had reacted quickly and been extremely helpful. To be clear, I was in no way blaming him, nor was I shaking down the richest man on Earth. Instead, I was simply offering Bezos, also a husband and father, a brief human connection.
But when I told him what had happened, Bezos looked horrified. He did not say “I’m so sorry.” He did not say “Do you need anything?” Instead, he made a face, and in an instant, an aide came and whisked him away. When presented with the opportunity for empathy, even performative empathy, he chose escape.❞
Elsewhere in the essay, Hawley reflects on the effect massive wealth has on the psyche:
❝The closer I’ve gotten to the world of wealth, the more I understand that being truly rich doesn’t mean amassing enough money to afford superyachts, private jets, or a million acres of land. It means that everything becomes effectively free. Any asset can be acquired but nothing can ever be lost, because for soon-to-be trillionaires, no level of loss could significantly change their global standing or personal power. For them, the word failure has ceased to mean anything. This sense of invulnerability has deep psychological ramifications. If everything is free and nothing matters, then the world and other people exist only to be acted upon, if they are acknowledged at all. This is different from classic narcissism, in which a grandiose but fragile self-image can mask deep insecurity. What I’m talking about is a self-definition in which the individual grows to the size of the universe, and the universe vanishes. ...
Decades of research in developmental psychology have shown that moral reasoning develops through consequences—not punishment, necessarily, but experiencing the effects of your actions on others, receiving honest feedback, having to accommodate reality as it actually is rather than as you wish it to be. It’s not that the wealthy become evil; it’s that their environment stops teaching them the things that nonwealthy people are forced to learn simply by living in a world that pushes back. When you can buy your way out of any mistake, when you can fire anyone who disagrees with you, when your social circle consists entirely of people who need something from you, the basic mechanism by which humans learn that other people are real goes dark.❞
https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/2026/05/billionaire-consequence-free-reality/686588/?gift=SCYx-5scVta3-cr_IlgTyS-dDYKgrDyp9kauNtFD7UI