I am realizing that the grand breakthrough will never come. Rather, you experience many breakthroughs, periodic waves of realization and improvement, and these little breakthroughs add up over the years until you’re a brand new person.
Increasingly believing the key to life is to be able to take Ls in stride without missing a beat. Just letting it roll off your back.
Two reasons:
1. Doing things means you will constantly make mistakes.
2. 95% of Ls are a lie you are telling yourself and it could easily be reframed.
Embrace the Ls. No second thought
You can just start living manually. If you come into full awarenesss while out in public you will look around and notice no one else is paying any attention to what is happening. You can snap them out of it easily by engaging in any non-programmed behavior.
You can prompt the reality engine.
When a tree grows in a weird shape it’s usually because it was avoiding an immovable obstacle. After the obstacle is removed, it’s easy to judge the tree’s abnormal shape, even though it took the most optimal path it could. Let the forest be.