@ryanhube.eth
My wife and I are the same way, looking out for others and willing to lend a helping hand. Recently had a friend start to take advantage of us, asking for money, asking to borrow our cars because hers was unreliable. We tried to think of excuses, and finally we just said we need to say no. It’s felt like a weight was lifted from our shoulders and she actually got herself a new car and told us she has a plan to be paying us back over the next 3 months. So apparently she needed to hear that word also.