@paulebaby

Honestly? I suck at keeping up sometimes—forget birthdays, ghost for weeks, you name it. But weirdly, that’s kinda why it works? Like, we don’t treat friendship like a chore. No pressure to perform. Just random voice notes at 2 a.m., dumb memes, or showing up with coffee when someone’s drowning in life. Yeah, it’s messy. Yeah, we go months without talking. But when we reconnect? Zero guilt. Zero catching up. Just… there. Like old sneakers. Comfortable. Maybe that’s the trick? Stop treating it like a project. Let it breathe. Let it be lazy. Let it be real. Though… what if we’re just getting lucky? What if this only works ‘cause we’re stubborn? Or lazy? Or both? Try it. See if your crew survives the silence. Bet they will.

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