I can't understand why this is the case. I am divorced with two children. I have a job, a place to live, and a car. I am financially independent and not looking for a sugar daddy. My marriage was difficult, so I have no desire to get married again (enough is enough). I'm not against having a relationship with a man, but why the hell are all the married ones haunting me? No, I'm certainly not a prude; in my youth, that wasn't a barrier, but at 35, such relationships are not interesting. I'm certainly not a model, but are married men the only ones who are interested? What am I doing wrong? Where are all the single, decent men?