@liulili

Honestly, I used to think keeping friends long-term meant grand gestures or constant texting—but nah. It’s the dumb little stuff. Like, I’ll randomly send my old buddy a meme from 2014 and he’ll reply with “still ugly lol.” No pressure, no schedule. Sometimes months go by and we pick up like no time passed. I stopped stressing about “keeping in touch” perfectly. If they’re real, they’ll holler when life gets heavy—or when they find that weird snack we used to steal in high school. Don’t overthink it. Just be the person who remembers their dog’s name or that they hate pineapple on pizza. And hey—if you’re scared you’ve drifted? Shoot a voice note saying “miss your face.” Worst they do is not reply… but most times? They’ve been waiting for you to ping first. What’s one tiny thing you’ve done lately that made an old friend smile?

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