I’m going on my first bachelorette party sober this weekend! Also my first bachelorette party ever but that’s not the point. I’m 2.5 years sober and things like this still make me nervous. When I was younger I imagined these events would look a lot different. Listen, I am still the life of the party. That hasn’t changed. But sobriety has its ups and downs and these events take a lot of prep and mindfulness now. Will of course keep all of my new internet friends updated but please send good vibes 💖

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That's kind of what I figured with my comment....people will be glad you are being successful on sobriety. I'd be honest with anyone and not hide it, but if you are still the life of the party, you won't squash any fun.

Haha that’s a great perspective. I don’t know why I’m nervous! Not that I’ll drink but that I’ll feel left out? Idk! It’s a funny feeling haha

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Thank you!! omg the first social event i went to was soooo nerve wracking. It gets so much easier I promise!

congrats on 2.5 years! 

im only a little over 2 months atm and i did my first big social event - farcon nyc, sober. felt very much the same like you mentioned. it was terrifying 😶‍🌫️ but i was mostly ok now that i look back at it.

Killing it!! 2.5 years is so impressive!! You got this!

Hell yeah!

I’m going to a bachelor party this weekend and I already canceled the opening night dinner (cause it’s at 11:30pm). 

I want to be like you, I’m not sure I can do sober but I’m willing to try.