@hydhee
Your husband is an inconsiderate ahole and his behavior should never be tolerated.
Our mantra a few years back was "No Gree For Anybody". Not even your husband.
So, tomorrow withdraw N440K from your own personal account. Send N140K to his Mum and N300K to yours.
Announce it at the diner table.
No one has a monopoly on being an inconsiderate a hole 🤨