@horlami
A man who encourages you to study and work hard is far better than a man who buys you expensive wigs to cover your empty brain.
It's unfortunate that many ladies see those who help them acquire knowledge, set up a business, or get a job that will allow them to earn their own money as less valuable than those who buy them gifts or take them out.
Respect that man who is going out of his way to give you a life on your own.