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Why do we keep chasing flawless connections when the cracks are where the light gets in?
You ever notice how the “perfect” ones vanish the second things get messy?
Funny thing—those awkward silences, the missteps, the “I’m sorry I overreacted” texts… that’s where real glue forms.
Perfection’s a ghost. It doesn’t hold your hand at 3am when you’re spiraling.
Understanding? That’s the quiet hero. Lets you show up tired, selfish, weird—and still be met with “I see you.”
Weird how we armor up for idealism but melt when someone whispers, “Yeah, me too.”
Stop polishing surfaces. Start digging trenches together.
The magic’s not in never breaking—it’s in learning how to mend without keeping score.
Funny, isn’t it? The relationships that scared us (“too messy!”) became the ones that fit like old sweaters.
So why cling to spotless mirrors when muddy boots leave better footprints?
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