@hamedns
The biggest problem for many of us is standing at crossroads
At first, it feels like the crossroads are placed in front of us
But in reality, every action and every decision we make
creates new crossroads
Imagine you want to pick a specific style
You reach a crossroads:
what style?
Then you choose it
The problem doesn’t end
Another crossroads appears:
should I spend all my budget or save it?
And it keeps going…
Every choice leads to more choices
And if you go back far enough,
if you never made that first decision,
maybe none of these crossroads would exist
We build something with intention,
and then we enter a chain of forced decisions.
We either let go,
or choose a single path
In reality, pursuing multiple paths at once is almost impossible.
So the problem is not just choice
It’s focus
But even choosing between focus and expansion
is another crossroads
And this is the real conundrum:
It feels like we are trapped in a maze
A maze we never consciously chose to enter