I'm going to say something that most people won't agree with me.

If you are a man, put yourself first above your wife, kids, and even family members. 

The reason is that as a man, your power is in the ability to provide.

Once you lose that, your wife, kids, and family members might turn on you. You want to make sure you invest more in yourself and equip yourself. That way, you will always be on top of the game

I'm a certified engineer.
Im into oil and gas, you need to buy filling station or gas station I'm here for you.
Installation and general maintenance of pump.

Put yourself first and never neglect your family. Everything must be balance.