@eirrann.eth
I often have a couple fragments of the lyrics to "Once in a Lifetime" by The Talking Heads pop into my head.
I have taken to altering and adding slightly to them, as an affirmation:
This IS my beautiful house.
This IS my beautiful wife.
This IS my beautiful life.
Well, Igor...
That IS your beautiful house.
That IS your beautiful (future) wife.
That IS your beautiful life.
I'm very happy for you.