@dripper
In the late Qing Dynasty, Li Hongzhang's son Li Jingfang had an intensified conflict with family members over the distribution of property, and even publicly accused his father of being unfair. This incident was used by political enemies and widely spread in the court and among the people, which not only damaged the reputation of the Li family, but also weakened Li Hongzhang's prestige in the court, becoming a major stain on his political career.
2. Nosy
Gossip comes from talking too much, and troubles come from trying to stand out. As a person, don't show off in front of others, don't talk about others behind their backs, and keep your own place. We spend two years learning to speak, but it takes 60 years to learn how to shut up. Gossiping and meddling in other people's affairs will not only waste your time and energy, but it is very likely that you will be involved in the cause and effect of others if you are not careful. If you don't keep your place in life, you are most likely to be entangled by villain