@dripper

"Don't worry about trivial matters, just keep your heart to yourself and live a peaceful life" During the Warring States Period, the Qi State official Qing Feng liked to interfere in the affairs of other families. He intervened in the internal conflicts of Cui Zhu's family and helped Cui Zhu's son fight for power, which led to the internal strife of the Cui family. In the end, Qing Feng not only failed to profit from it, but because he made too many enemies, he was jointly attacked by other families and forced into exile, ending up in disgrace. 3. Don’t know how to say no If a person cannot say no, he will live in someone else's world unconsciously and slowly lose control of his life. But once you learn to say no, you can at least reduce more than 90% of the troubles in life, because not everyone in this world can exchange hearts with each other. True kindness is not unconditional giving, but principled help. Acceptance is a favor, and rejection is your right. Keep your bottom line and principles

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