@degenveteran.eth
So heartfelt, always continue these moments.
Recently I came up to my parents 10 year anniversary of them passing in a car accident.
I was so focused on doing something personally in memoriam... One thing led to another... The day they had passed already lapsed days before. I didn't even realize it. My mind was everywhere but here.
Just like your forgotten cake, for whatever reason it hopefully helped the grieving process in one way (even if it were just to listen and let out some good emotions) like you said, it won't heal but it can be what's needed to soften the scars.
Prayers to you and your family 🙏
(My wife and I married to the same song "somewhere over the rainbow").