Dahluckstar (dahluckstar)

Desperate men rearrange their entire schedule to accommodate her availability. When you have priorities that sometimes come before her, she'll respect your boundaries and compete for your attention. A man with options never begs for her time.

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Sometimes it’s about saying no. No to things you don’t want, no to favors that drain you, no to people who cross your limits. You don’t owe anyone a yes. Saying no is how you protect your peace and self-respect. That is real courage.

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To be emotionally available to a disordered woman is akin to presenting your pulsing neck vein to a greedy vampire and labeling it "drain here". Of course, they want you to be emotionally available. It's down to you as a man to discern the level of access she gets, if any.

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Too many people get so used to pain that they marry it. They introduce themselves to the world through their trauma: I’m the girl whose father left. I’m the guy who got cheated on. I’m the one everybody walked away from. Stop it. That’s not you, that’s what happened to you. And let me say this straight: if you keep rehearsing your wounds, you’ll keep reliving your wounds. You’ll stay stuck.

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