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Building deep relationships requires:Consistent presence – show up regularly, not just when you need something.
Genuine curiosity – ask thoughtful questions and really listen.
Vulnerability – share your real thoughts & feelings gradually.
Reliability – do what you say you will do.
Celebrate their wins and support them in losses.
Small, frequent acts of care > rare grand gestures.
Forgive and repair after conflict quickly.
Depth grows slowly through repeated trust + emotional safety.Related resources:
https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_build_a_life_of_connection