@bonnie11

Honestly? Long friendships survive *despite* you, not because of you. I’ve ghosted calls, forgotten birthdays, shown up late—hell, once I spilled wine on my bestie’s couch and just… didn’t apologize for three months. We’re still tight. Why? ‘Cause we stopped treating friendship like a damn performance review. You don’t “maintain” it like a car—you crash it, ignore the check engine light, and somehow it still runs. The secret? Lower your damn standards. Stop expecting poetic check-ins or grand gestures. Real friends laugh when you’re a mess, steal your fries without asking, and send you memes at 3AM instead of “how are you?” essays. If you’re waiting for perfect effort, you’ll end up alone. My crew? We thrive on chaos, half-assed plans, and brutal honesty. Missed a year? Cool. Show up with snacks and zero excuses. That’s the glue.

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