@biala001
if you want your relationship to last
if you want your relationship to last, you need to change the things that make your partner
uncomfortable. you can't keep doing things that hurt them
and then
act like it's nothing.
sometimes you have to disappoint others to protect the person you chose. that's part of loving someone. your partner shouldn't have to repeat why something bothers them. respect means you listen the first time. they shouldn't have to keep explaining why something hurts. when they tell you once, that should be enough