I am very fond of the violin and am a violinist.
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Being away from you is a painโฆ But not just for the heart; To understand the meaning of distance. Sometimes distance is not kilometers, Sometimes it is a decision that was not made, Or a sentence that was never said. Being away from you is a pain Because it forces a person To return to himself, To the voids that were filled by the presence of another. And there you understand How the absence of someone Can make a person deeper, Not weaker. Maybe the philosophy of this pain is this; To learn that loving does not always mean having, And distance is sometimes another form of awarenessโฆ
What did we get ourselves intoโฆ What did we hold on to that became so hard to let go of? When did we start taking so seriously the things that were never worth this much fighting for? Somewhere along the way, we tied the knots ourselves, then sat there complaining about how tangled everything became.
Refusing to give up on one's own dreams and desires is not selfishness, but a result of self-respect and psychological maturity. A healthy individual does not suspend their self-worth while existing within relationships. Suppressing one's own goals, desires, or identity in order to conform to the expectations of others, while seemingly maintaining the relationship in the short term, leads to loss of self, burnout, and internal conflict in the long term.
Life isnโt something you chase , itโs something you notice. In the warmth of the morning sun, in laughter that comes without reason, in moments that donโt need to be perfect to feel right. Itโs fragile, chaotic, and endlessly beautiful , and maybe thatโs what makes it worth living.