@adrianandreev.eth
Dear son, daughter, or friend,
I share this as a truth and an experience of my life so far.
I used to date a lady that engaged in putting down waiters, psyops / emotional / mental put downs. Communication is a/b,
when the balance is off kilter,
you need to go hither to a place of freedom and peace.
Even if you both fit the marriage definitions in a relationship.
The mental, emotional and spiritual toll is not worth it.
A soulmate (I imagine), would take the time to understand, reflect and encourage communication without a need for hurt. Even if the steak or potatoes are not as what we asked for, it was never the waiter’s fault.
The issue was a communication breakdown or possibly even the cook being new.
Being feisty or a heretic for something you believe in, is fine and encouraged.
However, when it bleeds into other things that impact relationships or other people close/unaware of your pain/battles, a change is necessary
https://open.spotify.com/track/5Fd9Xyo34qjz30Lh3G6Phr?si=OO9nMAAhRD2Eyfz0I1AdSQ